Mary Elizabeth Cox

 MARY ELlZABETH COX

by John C. Whiting

 Some great man has said that every man is justified in saying I have the best wife and the best mother in the world. I heartily agree with him. When memory takes me back to my childhood days, I wonder what I could have accomplished without my mother, with her loving care, wise counsel and advice. She had three titles: Mother to a favored few — Grandma to a large number — and Aunt Mary to a host of loving friends. She spoke no evil. She was patient and uncomplaining in sorrow and adversity. She loved young people and children, joining in their games and amusements until the day of her death. She was never idle; could nit, read and rock the cradle at the same time. Mother loved to play the quiet home games of her day. About the only time I ever heard her swear was when I was able in a game of checkers to maneuver around and take three or four of her men. Then she would exclaim. “O the devil” perhaps meaning me. Mother was a devout Latter Day Saint and came as near living perfect life as mortals ever attain.

By John C. Whiting

Sketch of Almira M. Meacham – by Gertrude P. Killpack

ALMIRA M. MEACHAM

Almira M.. Mecham. was born May 13, I824 in New York. She was grandfather’s second wife and was the mother of seven children. She did not live in the big house, but Grandfather built her a home near by where she lived and raised her children.

Edward, her eldest son, was dependable and aided in the support of the family. She was a good nurse and gave service to neighbors when needed. Many babies saw the light of day for the first time in her faithful care. She was kind and gentle, even tempered and gracious to everyone. She respected Elizabeth,the first wife, as the head of the house hold along with Grandfather and was congenial with the other wives who taught correct principles to her children who loved, honored and respected her. Leaving friends and relatives, as a young girl, she came to Utah as a pioneer and when she suffered poverty and many other hardship common to the early days. May these faithful souls be rewarded in the great beyond.

 (signed) Gertrude P. Killpack

Elizabeth Partridge Tillotson by Wayne Johnson

 

Elizabeth Partridge Tillotson, grandfather’s first wife, was the mother of eleven children. She was honored by the other wives and thought of as coming first after grandfathher in the Whiting home. She was a very quiet, refined, klind-hearted and industrious. As a child, I see her very old as one who had passed through many sorrows and trials, who had struggled hard and had overcome the obstacles that stood in her way. She seemed to be descending the hill and looking toward the sunset of life. She taught school before her marriage and had charge of the Sabbath School for small children for many years after coming to Utah. She had a very brilliant mind, yet was simple and reserved in her appearance and manner. As I remember the old home, the picture uppermost in my mind is the old arm chair she sat in with its black velvet cushion and raw hide bottom, one of the chairs made from the native wood by grandfather, in which she reclined by the old Charter Oak cook stove. Her children and grandchildren have her, many admirable qualities.

(signed) Wayne Johnson

A Cox/Whiting Reunion 1898

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A Happy Reunion

Fairview, Sanpete County July 21, 1898.

At the union of the Cox-Whiting families assembled here on the 19th there were present 368 persons as follows:

F.W. Cox 173; his family, number of children, 23; grandchildren, 155; great grandchildren, 46. Orvill Cox’s family, children 19; grandchildren, 86; great grandchildren, 16. Total; 121; present.

Edwin Whitings family, 235; present, 121. Children, 121. Children, 23, grandchildren, 140; alive at this date, 648 (in the three families).

These people settled in Manti in the years 1850 and 1852 and remarkable as it would seem, they remain, with few exceptions, intact and represent some of the best families in the state. A large per cent of the Cox tribe reside in Manti and Fairview in this county, and a number have “gone down the wall” into Emery and branches in Arizona and Mexico. The Whitings mostly reside at Springville and Mapleton, Utah County. These people are Mormons and sturdy and industrious citizens. They own and cultivate their own farms “live within their means,” owe no man a dollar, live in mansions and are comparatively happy.

Wm Arthur Cox has been very sick while in camp, but at this writing he is improving. This fact has caused a feeling of joy to spread over the relatives assembled. A program is being carried out each day by the several branches and a general time of rejoicing is manifest.

Augustus Cox and Aunt Mary Cox Whiting are the only survivors of the old stock present. The children of Orvil Cox, residents of Fairview, are making every effort to accommodate their numerous relatives, visitors, and welcome them to this beautiful and picturesque mountain home. The weather is most delightful.

The Manti contingent gave a theatrical performance last night. Aaron Johnson of the Springville contingent and a veteran in the line will hold the boards tonight in the play, Nevada. Orvil Cox people will entertain the crowd tomorrow evening and Saturday the town will give the reunion an ovation after which the multitude will begin their return journeys home. Many of the relatives have never met before and others at long intervals. These families are in the main comfortably situated and enjoy the confidence of the communities where they reside.

–Transcribed from the Deseret News Online, 30 July 1898, pg 13. Punctuation and spelling in the original.

A Birthday Party for Edwin Whiting

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 Edwin Whiting’s Surprise 79th Birthday

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In 1888, Edwin’s family surprised him with a large family gathering in honor of his 79th birthday. The large family dinner photographed by George Edward Anderson has circulated in the extended family for many years.

Source: Photo from the George Edward Anderson Collection, #16149,

http://lib.byu.edu/digital/anderson/

Additional Notes About the Large Birthday Dinner Gathering of Edwin Whiting Family

The names on the large family Photo of Edwin Whiting and his family gathered around the dinner table were provided by Lyra Gertrude Perry Killpack in 1947. Just before she died, she wrote the following note along with the names of the people, names starting at the front left and going clockwise around the group. This names will be best understood if you are able to view the Edwin Birthday photo in the book, Edwin Whiting and His Family, by Marie J. Whiting and Marcus L. Smith, pg. 89, or the online version of this book on this website. The following four pages, 90-93 of the Edwin book breaks up the original photo into successive images with numbers to help identify nearly each individual by name.

The following are further notes of Mrs. Killpack about this picture to describe things to look for: “Tables at the back and east of grandpa Edwin’s large home. Fence in the rear is the dividing line of grandpa Edwin’s place and Stephen Perry’s place” (Who sold him the property on the south).

“Note the scaffold for drying fruit, the wood pile, the old well, the old cleaning barrel where the wood ashes were emptied and then filled with water to soften for washing. The high crowned hat on Madge’s lap and one on aunt Kit’s head. The bangs and some with the up-sweep of hair like 1947. The beards and mustaches like this centennial year of 1947. Shirts with no collars or ties, long dresses and sturdy shoes. The old home-made rockin’ chair, the saw horses with wooden pegs projectin’ above the rail plank (no nails then). The flat stones for door steps, grandpa’s vines and shrubs.”

By magnifying the image, you can find most of these items. The names of most of the 67 participants going CLOCKWISE around the table are given in her account.

 Source: Lovell A. Killpack, Jr. , Orem, Utah 1965

 Also notice the two wooden chairs in the front of the picture on each side and then compare these with the photo of the Edwin Whiting Heirloom Chair, seen in some of the artifacts, elsewhere in this website.

In the book, Edwin Whiting and His Family, Marcus L. Smith, co-author, expertly and accurately analyzed this large photo for details of the date and the occasion. It was later that Marcus that first pointed out that the now available online newspapers reported this event. The following articles, one from the Provo Daily Enquirer and a short article from the Deseret News confirm his earlier analysis. Read his expert study of the facts presented only on the picture itself, to determine the date and event with accuracy,

A Birthday Party in Honor of Father Edwin Whiting

-Published in The Daily Enqirer, Newspaper 1888-09-18 vol. 12 no. 73
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 “Last Sunday we left camp for a short visit to Springville. Where there we had the pleasure of attending a birthday party given in honor of the veteran nurseryman, Father Edwin Whiting, who is just entering upon his 80th year. It was quite a surprise to the old gentleman, when he was led to the shade of his apple orchard, (planted by himself thirty years ago) and looked upon a long table loaded with the choicest coking, and surround by seventy-five of his children and grandchildren, together with thirty or forty of his nearest friends. The surprise was still more complete when the aged hero of this occasion was ushered to the head of the table and placed in a large, easy chair, presented to him by one of his stalwart sons. In our judgment, a prettier picture of this kind is seldom seen. Father Whiting, his face first showing surprise, then covered with modest blushes, now beaming with happiness as he really comprehends the situation, and finds himself suddenly hemmed in by his large family and congratulatory friends, presents a scene that will be remembered in the long years to come. As he sits there, one can plainly see on his face that the deepest love and gratitude is welling up from his heart for each of the dear ones present. While this large family circle in position at the table, Professor George E. Anderson, the double lightning photographer, brought his apparatus to bear on the group, and the picture was flashed on the face of the glass. (Mr. Anderson passed through this ordeal in safety.)

 At 8 o’clock in the evening the company were gathered: prayer, singing, speeches and recitations were rendered till 11:30, and in every respect was a perfect success. One curious, and we may say pleasing, feature of this occasion was the presence of eleven babies in long clothes, and seven just merging from their trains, eighteen in all, and as the little dears lay scattered about in chair, cribs, on sofas, and in their mothers’ arms, one might well say, “What’s the use of making so much noise about booming, and filling up the Territory from the outside? Why, the system of home emigration will shortly fill every corner of Utah with a people that will make the very mountains echo with the hum of the most important industries!” and the cry will go forth, “Give us room that we may dwell!”

 The wishes of the many friends of Brother Whiting present, were, that he might live to see many more such times of rejoicing.”

 Andie

Tabbyune Canyon, Sept. 13, 1888

Honoring A Veteran

Another brief article was published in the Deseret News on September 19, 1888

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Edwin Whiting by His Six Children

 Edwin Whiting was born September 9th, 1809, Lee Co., Mass. When a small boy, his father moved to Ohio, were they resided until Edwin was married to Elizabeth P. Tillotson. She too, was born in Mass., Apr. 15th, 1814, town of Tyringham. Her parents also moving west in an early day. They were married in 1833 & lived in Nelson, Ohio, until 1837.

In the autumn of that year they moved to [Missouri], settling in Clay Co. Soon after uniting their fortunes with the Latter Day Saints, they were forced to leave that State, and all their possessions, among which was a nice young orchard which Father had been at great pains to plant. They went with the Saints to [Illinois], and made a home with the branch of the Church in Lima. Here they again planted an orchard and after living there four years, the spirit of mobocracy again was brought to bear, and another expulsion had to be endured by the Saints. Mother was permitted to take her youngest child who was very sick, and a bed, and as many of her household goods as she could into a corner of the lot while they burned the house. Father had to flee for his life, as the mob had sent them word, if any men were seen, they would be shot. In the meantime, teams arrived from Nauvoo, and the homeless Saints were removed to that place for the winter, with the understanding that they were to move on in the spring. Soon after their arrival in Nauvoo, their 8th child, Lucius, was born.

In January 1846, they entered into the Celestial Order of Marriage. Almira Palmer, a widow, and Mary Elizabeth Cox being sealed to Father. In April, of 1846, they took up a line of march for the then unknown regions of the great west, but stopped at Mt. Pisgah, Iowa, three years, preparing for their farther move, with the church, which had now located in the Valley of the Great Salt Lake. In 1849, with a family now numbering fourteen, they started with ox teams to travel across the plains, the journey occupying six months. On the headwaters of the Sweet Water, the company encountered a horrible snow storm, during which many of their cattle died. As their teams were already weak, the remainder of the journey would not have been accomplished, only for the wise precautions of President Young in sending teams out to help them into the Valley. This company brought word that Father and family were chosen to go with a company in charge of Father Morley to settle in Sanpete Co., which they accordingly did, settling in Manti, Utah, after an extended journey of three weeks time from Great Salt Lake City.

It was snowing part of the time and the roads had to be made causing many delays in pioneering new country. When later in November they reached Manti, they were glad to hastily dig in on the South side of the stone quarry, a few dugouts, and move their scant household goods into them, their winter home. Walkers band of Indians were their only neighbors.

The following spring, the town was laid out, and Father prepared to move into a City lot by first transplanting his little trees, which he brought in a small box on the side of the wagon from the States, being very choice, but some had died. However, with all the care they had received, a few still lived and grew. They soon had to move into Forts in order to protect themselves from Indians who had become hostile. In 1855, Father was called on a mission to the States, and the next summer, we were visited by the dread scourge, the grasshoppers. They came in numbers sufficient and took all the growing crops in Sanpete County, leaving the people entirely destitute of support. It took the united efforts of the family to keep the ”wolf from the door.” Pigweed greens, together with a small piece of corn and graham bread, sparingly dealt out to each, was the living of the family. Mother nobly and with the greatest patience, looked after and planned for the welfare of all during this trying time of scarcity.

Father, after three years absence, returned to find all prospering, and as he had brought a collection of choice fruit trees and shrubs of different kinds home with him, after trying faithfully for twelve years to raise fruit with very little success, concluded to move to Springville which he did in 1860. There, he went into the nursery business successfully. Trees from his nursery are scattered over all parts of this territory.

Father died in Springville in December 1890. Mother, who had suffered many years with asthma, lived little more than a year after. She died February 4th, 1892. Our oldest brother, William, died Sept. 20, 1888. Mother’s descendants, thus far, are: 11 children, 6 of whom are living; 57 grandchildren; and 28 great grandchildren. Father’s children, 35, twenty seven of whom are living; 140 grandchildren and 30 great grandchildren. We think Father and Mother lived lives above reproach, as near as mortals can, and both lived the lives of latter Day Saints, and both bore faithful testimonies to the truths of the Gospel, as revealed to the Prophet, Joseph Smith, with whom they were both well acquainted in the last years in his life. All of which we feel to bear testimony too. Composed by the six living children of Edwin and Elizabeth Whiting.

-Amelia Buchanan
-Sarah E. Snow
-Lucius Whiting
-Oscar N. Whiting
-Louisa N. Johnson
-Caroline F. Bromley

March 18, 1892

Note: This history was written on March 18, 1892, in Springville, Utah, two years after the death of Edwin Whiting. It was written by his six surviving children from his first wife, Elizabeth Partridge Tillotson, who died only one month before this history was written on 4 February 1892. The six authors of this history and their ages at the time of writing are as follows: Amelia Whiting Buchanan, 56; Sarah Elizabeth Whiting Snow, 52; Edwin Lucius Whiting, 47; Oscar Newell Whiting, 44; Louisa Melitia Whiting Johnson, 42; and Caroline Fidelia Whiting Bromley, 39. Source: The Marie Whiting Collection. All spelling and punctuation original. The information was divided into paragraphs to make it easier to read. Some of the information given here differs from other accounts.

Edwin Whiting and the Deseret Agricultural & Manufacturing Society

Three articles follow with many names of this new organization. Their purpose was to create business and articles by themselves to sustain their lives and sell to themselves as a community and not to depend on outsiders coming in and then buying from them. The images shown are only a small part of the business that they are about. See the url next to the image for details. You will notice that this is during the period that Edwin is in the Legislature, in the 1860’s..

 Correspondence from San Pete County:

This article details the organization of the Deseret Agricultural and Manufacturing Society. Edwin Whiting was the organization’s first president.

http://udn.lib.utah.edu/cdm4/document.php?CISOROOT=/deseretnews2&CISOPTR=610&CISOSHOW=611

Source: Deseret News 1860-03-14 Correspondence, pg. 5 (Note: The source and other articles on the same page give a year as 1860.)

 Report of the D.A. & M. Society

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Source: Deseret News 1860-04-25, pg7, Report of the D. A. & M. Society

Edwin Whiting Springville Biography

 Edwin Whiting was born in Massachusetts, September 9th, 1809. Though not a pioneer of Springville, he passed through here in 1849 with the colony that settled at Manti. He came to Springville in the year 1861 and his coming marked an era in the culture of finer fruits and ornamental shade trees. He gave impetus to the trans-planting of the evergreen from its native haunts in the mountains, to “making glad waste places”. He died at Mapleton. December 7th 1890.

 From a biography in Marie J. Whiting Collection

Whiting Extractions from the Journal of Samuel Kendall Gifford

Source for the whole article is : http://www.fold3.com/page/283366385_samuel_kendall_gifford/

There are entries on pg. 9, 10, 14, 16, 17, 20 and 33 specific to the Whiting story that have been identified in this account. The time spent at Mt. Pisgah, the chair shop, Manti history are helpful in telling the Whiting story. I have selected the Whiting stories  and have underlined the name Whiting for easy retrieval. There are several accounts of the activity of Edwin Whiting, one of William Whiting and one of Mary Cox Whiting in this journal.  

 Pg.9

I then returned to Mt. Pisgah to make a fitout for the Mountains.

This was the winter of 1847-8. I again went into the chair shop with the Whitings, with whom I had labored in Illinois. After I had been here some time, Old Mother Head, who was then the wife of Father Elisha Whiting, took sick and died in one week from the time she took sick.

A short time after Father Whiting died also with one weeks sickness. The old gentleman was fixing to go to Quincy, Ill., where we had a regular market for our chairs, hoping to sooner get a fitout for the mountains. But death deprived him from going any farther with the Saints in their western journey.

I stayed in Mt. Pisgah and worked in the chair shop until the fall of 1848 when I married Lora Ann, daughter of Freeborn and Ann (Anna) Knight DeMill. Anna was the daughter of Joseph and Polly Knight. We were married by President Edwin Whiting on Sunday the 1st day of October, 1848.

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In the spring of 1849 our President, Brother Edwin Whiting, started for the Valley of the Mountains. I said to him, “Edwin, (I had been used to calling him by his name) I am making four hundred chairs this year and go to the Valley next year.” His answer was, “You can’t do it.” I said, “I will do it.” The emigration for the California gold mines was passing through pretty briskly. Hay had raised from $2.00 to $20.00 per ton and corn from ten cents to $3.00 per bushel. Mechanics like myself had to buy both hay and corn to feed. President Whiting, just before starting on his journey, advised the Saints to not sell for high prices to their brethren who were obliged to buy corn, hay, etc. There were two men that listened to his council. If it had not been for those two men of whom I bought my corn, I could not have come to the Valley the next year as I had declared I would. The names of those men were Freeborn DeMill and Josiah Perry. God bless them.

 Pg. 14
The Indian troubles, known as the Walker War, then commenced. A strong guard had to be placed around our town. I was then Orderly Seargent of Captain Edwin Whiting’s Company, the first military company that was organized in Sanpete.

Pg. 16

June 21, 1856 Edwin Whiting was elected Major of Sanpete Militia in place of Nelson Higgins who was called on a mission to Carson Valley. Brother Whiting is on a mission to Ohio but is expected home soon. Elijah Averett was elected Second Lieutenant of Company B the 24th of August 1856. Major Edwin Whiting got home from his mission to Ohio. Sunday, Brother Whiting preached a noble Gospel discourse.

Pg. 17

August 30, 1856 I attended Court Martial. Sunday 31st, Inst. Brother Elisha Edwards got home from his mission to Ohio. Preached in the forenoon and Father Morley and Edwin Whiting preached in the afternoon. Their instructions were excellent. Thursday, Sept. 4, 1856 I attended Fast Meeting.

 Pg. 20

Drove to Ft. Ephraim and Bishop Kafod joined us the next morning with about 30 wagons with tithing for the city. Tuesday 3rd, bad crossing of Sanpitch on account of broken ice but got across without any damage. Drove to the Duck Springs and camped for the night. Wednesday 4th, started early in the morning and drove to the Uinta Springs and stopped to water our teams, after which thirty-three men were selected to drive on and break the road across the divide. Bishop Snow took the lead, I was one of the number. The remainder stopped for the night. We drove about two miles when the snow began to crust over so we were obliged to stop. It was then sundown. We fed our cattle. Some of us went about a half mile for wood. The snow was about two feet deep and we broke through about half of the time. After returning to our wagons and warming ourselves a little, for it was very cold, Bishop Snow, Father Israel Shoemaker, William Whiting, (Note: The oldest child of Edwin and Elizabeth) D. D. Washburn and myself started afoot to break the road. We all took hold of hands, forming a line across the road and jumping upon the crust so that the wagons were able to follow up with some four to seven yoke of oxen to the wagon. When we were about half way across the divide we met Elder Hyde going to Sanpete. His carriage was so light the crust bore it up. Neither did the horses break through so we went over safe. We were joined by the others who assisted us in breaking the crust by jumping upon as before until we got over the divide, some five or six miles.

Pg. 33

Typical of Mormon colonies, the education of the young was not to be neglected. The first school classes were held in the cabins of the Saints, but soon a small log schoolhouse was erected and Jesse W. Fox was installed as the Pioneer teacher. He was soon followed by Mrs. Mary Whiting. Samuel Kendall Gifford was a learned man for his day and read extremely well. He became a teacher on an elementary level soon after his arrival in Manti. He taught the Gospel whenever possible and was a teacher in the first Sunday School organized in Manti.

Source: Diary of Samuel Henry Gifford http://www.fold3.com/page/283366385_samuel_kendall_gifford/

 

Journal of Jonathan O’Duke about Edwin Whiting

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Johnathan O’Duke kept a handwritten autobiography and diary about his early life in England, his conversion to the Mormon Church in 1839, and his overland journey to Utah. This page in his diary notes his acquaintance with Edwin Whiting.

  …and arrived in Pisgah… I went a little ahead of the teams and came upon my family by surprise and I was received by them as one who had risen from the dead here. I had an opportunity of meeting with many of my old Nauvoo friends and forming an intimate acquaintance with Edwin Whiting who was President of the Branch an excellent man to whom I was great attached here I felt myself at home amonst the Saints and was made Bishop counselor but to my countenance among them was of short duration about 3 weeks when I started to fort desmoine for the purpose of getting work but not succeeding to my mind I returned to Pisgah being absent 11 days I remained at home several weeks in the beginning of Oct. I started in company with Br. Whiting and Striker to Bentonsfort where I immediately got a …(end of page ) Source: Transcription of a page from a Journal of Johnathan O Duke from the BYU Special Collections Library. VMiss 227 v1.

To view the entire journal, click the link below. Reference to Edwin Whiting is on page 19 of the diary.

http://contentdm.lib.byu.edu/cdm/compoundobject/collection/Diaries/id/7640/rec/1 

Transcribed by James W. Whiting, Springville, Utah, 7 March 2011. Spelling and punctuation retained original.